RE: Darby Weaver

WTF!!!!!!

Tony Schaffran
Sr. Network Consultant
CCIE #11071
CCNP, CCNA, CCDA,
NNCDS, NNCSS, CNE, MCSE

-----Original Message-----
From: nobody_at_groupstudy.com [mailto:nobody_at_groupstudy.com] On Behalf Of
kzithmxw_at_grr.la
Sent: Thursday, December 26, 2013 9:37 PM
To: ccielab_at_groupstudy.com
Subject: Darby Weaver

I suspect there may be someone out there who knows how to find/get in touch
with Darby. I forward this out of a small hope this can be resolved before
something worse occurs. I realize this is totally off topic and for that I
am
sincerely sorry.

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From:katmathison_at_aol.com
Hello everyone,
 
I know you don't know me. I am trying to reach Darby Weaver. I am in
desperate need of help. My name is Kat, Darby and I met when I was 15yrs
old,
he was my first love.
We were married for 20yrs. Unfortunately he decided to have his mid life
crisis and abandoned me in Orlando with our 2 little yorkies.
 
He left Orlando with the excuse that his "dad" was having heart surgery and
he
was going to Alabama to take care of him, mind you all his family is in
Alabama. I told Darby when his dad was feeling better to bring him to
Orlando
and we could give him the master bedroom in our home so he could be more
comfortable and we could both take care of him so he could have a break from
all the drama that goes on in Alabama.
His dad had 2 stents put in his heart, not a quadruple bypass like Darby
tells
people, and is doing great, and is back to work.
 
Darby emptied our bank account before leaving Orlando and lied to me about
coming back, even this year he was here right before Easter and said he was
coming back, instead he returned to Alabama and requested my mail to be
forwarded to his P.O. Box in Alabama. Our house in Altamonte Springs went
to
foreclosure, he refused to sign the papers to short sale the home. I have
been
staying in the house until I get evicted, I have no where else to go. Darby
refuses to pay the court ordered alimony since he was the main provider of
the
household, and expects me to survive on $1,200.00 a month.
 
He is claiming he is not working and not earning an income, yet he blogs
about
his "apprentice" a prostitute he met in Alabama and who he had the gull to
bring into our house with his sister and nephew when they came to pick up
all
his Cisco equipment and this "women" introduced herself as his "married
cousin"
while the whole time she was having an affair with my husband.
 
I have no family in this country. My grandparents were my legal guardians
and
unfortunately they have passed away.
 
Darby's latest inhumane and cruel action towards me was to turn the water
and
electricity off on our house this Friday.. He has not paid any bills for
over
a year, yet blogs about his apprentice and how she's a dyslexic grandma who
has never even read a book before, all the trips he has taken with his
"apprentice", and how he thinks he is going to take this "women" and turn
her
into a CCIE. The man has lost his mind.
 
I guess for Darby it was not enough to leave me, homeless, carless and penny
less but also to leave me with no water and no electricity while I can still
stay in the home.
I have no money to put a deposit and have the utilities be put in my name.
 
If anyone out there can help me, or reach out to Darby on his twitter,
lynkedin, email etc. Someone please try to advice him that what he is doing
in
cruel and inhumane. I need his help.
I'm not sure what type of people he has surrounded himself with in Alabama,
but
apparently they have no conscience, no respect for a 20yr marriage.
 
He should not have asked me to return to the states and work my butt off to
build a life together. Now that Darby has a career as a network engineer
and
can earn up to 100k a year and his child support payments are gone he
decides
to abandon me with nothing. Hew tells people he has to pay me 40K in
alimony,
not true. The judge ordered him to pay $2,000.00 a month, and he has paid
$40.00 this year, this is a tax deduction for him.
 
When we got married I was the support of our household thanks to the help of
my
grandparents, he was recently divorced, had filed bankruptcy, and had child
support payments for the next 17yrs, did not have even $100.00 worth of
credit.
back then his family did not have a problem, since many times I had to help
them with money my granny had left me. Now these people could care less if I
have a crumb of bread to eat.
 
Darby blogs about how he has integrity and does not want to cheat on taking
the
CCIE tests, how he likes to help everyone, apparently not, because he could
care less if I have a roof over my head, and is taking advantage that I have
no
one.
He has no values, and no morals, and is acting like the garbage he has
surrounded himself with, I am very sad for him. I know I should not say
this
but Darby is pushing me to the point where I just want to end my life, and
then
he will be happy.
 
 
Here is my address:
117 Bayberry Rd.
Altamonte Springs, FL 32714
 
If anyone can help me or knows how I can reach him, please let me know. I
do
not have a number for him and he hides behind his family like a coward.
thanks,
Kat Mathison.

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Received on Mon Dec 30 2013 - 01:12:58 ART